To Love a Complex Woman

Desher Hyland
6 min readNov 2, 2019

We’ve all heard jokes about women who don’t know what they want or whose wishes or desires are in opposition to one another. I can’t speak to that. I came here to talk about loving a complex woman.

(Since I am talking about my complex woman, references to myself are male and to her, female. Your experiences may be different, so substitute pronouns at will or just listen to the heart of one person who loves another’s